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Can Success Be Defined?

When giving career advice, don’t project your own definition of success onto someone else. Instead, listen to how they define success and have a conversation from their perspective.

Success can mean different things to different people.

For some, it’s about how much money they make. For others, it’s about job titles, work-life balance, or the size of their professional network.

I once met a headhunter while exploring recruitment as a career.

He proudly showed me his contact list and said, “If you work with me, you’ll have this many people in your network too.”

He even offered me a job, suggesting that I work for him instead of looking elsewhere. I turned it down because his definition of success wasn’t the same as mine.


The Many Definitions of Career Success

Since success can be defined in so many ways, there’s no single right answer. That’s why the stories of “successful” people in the media or on social platforms aren’t the absolute truth.

According to Harvard Business Review, success is often defined by external factors—like wealth and status—but a fulfilling career is usually built on personal values, purpose, and long-term well-being.

Take Elon Musk, for example. If someone asks, “Is Elon Musk’s career successful?”, most people wouldn’t hesitate to say “Yes.” He checks all the conventional boxes of success—billionaire status, groundbreaking innovation, and massive influence in industries like space exploration (SpaceX) and electric vehicles (Tesla).

But if the question is, “Is my coworker sitting next to me successful?”, that requires more thought. Most people don’t know who they are. Their salary is probably similar to mine. But if they have a thoughtful perspective on work and a career philosophy that resonates with me—one built on maturity and self-awareness—I’d consider their career pretty successful.

In fact, career happiness studies suggest that success is often linked to job satisfaction, personal growth, and autonomy rather than just financial rewards. (Source: Forbes)


Defining Your Own Success

So, if you asked me, “Would you rather have Elon Musk’s career or your coworker’s?” I honestly wouldn’t be able to answer that so easily.

At the end of the day, success is personal.


The real question is: How do you define it?

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